City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Carolyn Ayers Carbon
Raleigh, North Carolina
Age 90.
Died 02/24/2026.
She attended Purdue University, where she met her husband, Donald Carbon (1934-1996), late in their senior year. Their first date was to the Elvis Presley movie, Love Me Tender. Despite Carolyn not being a fan of Elvis, the relationship thrived, and the two married shortly after college in 1957.
Carolyn and Don moved to Germany for Don’s Army deployment. In 1958, they welcomed their first child, Steven Lee. Back in Chicago, they grew their family with Randall Scott in 1959, Suzanne Stacy in 1963, Gary Alan in 1966, and a parade of cats.
She balanced the demands of raising four children, managing a household, and working while occasionally relocating for Don’s insurance work. They built new lives in the heat of Florida, the cold of Wisconsin, and the air conditioning of Georgia and North Carolina, settling in Raleigh in 1982. Now rooted, she worked for 11 years in the administration offices of the North Carolina School for the Blind, retiring in 2000. In her retirement, she traveled and spent time with her family, especially her grandchildren, Steve and Rita’s daughter Ana (Boris), and Suzanne and Paul Schneider’s daughters Christine (Logan) and Katherine.
Carolyn was a quiet and thoughtful person who enjoyed reading, music, movies, and TV, preferring comedies, science fiction, horror/suspense, and celebrity gossip. For many years, she enjoyed taking cruises with her family and occasionally playing the slots.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Don, and her brother, Roger. She is survived by her children, Steve (Rita), Randy, Suzanne (Paul), and Gary (Suzanne), three grandchildren, and great-grandchild Mason.
She was loved. She will be missed.
A Memorial is scheduled at Pine Forest Memorial Gardens Wake Forest, NC 27587, NC on Friday March 6th at 11:00 AM.
In lieu of flowers please consider donating to a SPCA of Wake County.
For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Apples to Apples
Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.
Genuine Care
We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.
Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.
We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.
State Wide
Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.
Our Services
$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
$2875.66
We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
$1917.84
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
$1596.75
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation with a private family viewing. A private family viewing allows up to 10 immediate family members or friends to spend time with a loved one when a public visitation is not preferred.
$2497.50
An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
$6081.48
We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
$3033.75
This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
$2640.59
As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home offers Alkaline Hydrolysis. The Alkaline Hydrolysis process uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.